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Tuesday, April 21, 2020

How to Know God is Speaking - Part 5

We explore ways to discern if a word, thought, plan, goal, or dream is from God or not.




Scriptures:
  • I Thessalonians 5:19-21
  • Isaiah 38:1-6
  • Proverbs 16:9
  • Acts 18:1-3
  • Luke 24:31-32

Outline
  • Review
  • Does It Agree With the Bible
  • Get Counsel from Wise Christians
  • God Uses Other People to Confirm His Word
  • A Prophet May Confirm It
  • Ask God for Confirmation
  • Does it Align with a Previous Word from God?
  • Does it Align With Your Purpose?
  • Things Effortlessly Fall Into Place
  • Heartburn

Let me tell you one sign that God is speaking to you?
 … HEARTBURN


Review

In the series Hearing From God
We previously discussed that God can speak to us through:
  1. Bible
  2. Prayer
  3. Voice
  4. Pastors / teachers
  5. Prophetic words
  6. Tongues / Interpretations
  7. Dreams / Visions
  8. Peace
  9. Unusual circumstances / coincidences
  10. Fleece
  11. Closing doors
  12. Bringing things to your memory
  13. Inspired thoughts
  14. Prompting of the Holy Spirit
  15. Draw your Attention to something
  16. Nature / creation
  17. Worship / music
  18. Emotions
  19. Writing
  20. Angels
How does God most often speak to you?


Voices We Hear

Voices / thoughts / impressions that we get aren’t necessarily all from God
The voices can originate from
  • God
  • Your Mind
  • The World
  • Your Flesh
  • Your Gut
  • The enemy
  • Your Emotions

Your Mind


Your Own Voice

  • Your own plan
  • Voice of past trauma
  • Limiting beliefs
  • View of God
  • Waiting to punish you
  • You need to perform for love

Voice of the World

The systems that promote non-Christian perspectives
  • Science
  • Media
  • Popular opinion
Non Christians often believe
  • If you come to believe there is not a God that is through reason
  • If you come to believe there is a God that is through faith
Everything that you doubt about Christianity is based on faith in something else.  


Examples:
  • I can’t believe in a God who allows such evil and suffering
  • What you are saying is that because I can’t think of a good reason that God would allow evil and suffering there can’t be a good reason
  • Your doubt is based on faith in yourself
Secular beliefs are usually based on:
  • Culture / society
  • Historical context
  • Your emotions

Your Flesh

Lust of the Flesh

  • To want something because it feels good
  • Your physical desires
  • Your sinful tendencies

Lust of the Eyes

  • Coveting
  • Desire for status

Pride of Life

  • Power, Significance, respect
  • Something that leads to boasting

Your Gut

  • Bacteria
  • Viruses
  • Fungus
  • Candida
  • Yeast
They influence your fleshly desires
  • Cravings and addictions
  • Sweets
  • Alcoholism
  • Sexual desires
  • Obesity 

Example: 
  • Obesity in rats
  • Sex drive in crickets 


The Enemy

How many of these are you experiencing during the lockdown?
  1. Stronghold
  2. Temptation
  3. Fear
  4. Isolation
  5. Attacks When You’re Vulnerable
  6. Condemnation
  7. Deception
  8. Distraction
  9. The Enemy Can Influence Your Thoughts
  10. He Uses Other People


Your Emotions

How you feel can interfere with you hearing from God
You can be influenced by:
  • Fear
  • Embarrassment
  • Unhappiness
Example: what will people think?



God’s Voice (Review)

You can’t just judge based on your personal experience or by what your church does.


Does it Agree With the Bible?

How do you know what God is going to say unless you know what He already said
How do you know how God is going to speak unless you know how he has already spoken
  • Look at the context
  • Who was the verse addressed to?
  • We can apply promises God made to Israel
  • We were adopted into God’s family
  • Jesus already fulfilled some of the promises
  • We can apply wisdom literature
  • We can’t apply statements from one person to another
  • Is it in Alignment With the Whole Bible?
  • Is it Universally True?
  • What Was the Point of the Verse?

Example: all Christians will be rich
  • Were the apostles rich?
  • Did Jesus promise riches?

Get Counsel from Wise Christians

There are 3 types of spiritual leaders in your life
  1. The evangelist wants you to connect with the message of Christ
  2. The teacher wants to teach you the word and show you what it says about your life
  3. The mentor is there to help you listen to your life
The first two are directed by their goal for you. The mentor is going to come in and ask questions first.  

God Uses Other People to Confirm His Word

  • Pastors
  • Bible teachers
  • Fellow Christians
  • Prophets
Story: drunk guy in Vegas elevator



A Prophet May Confirm it

I Thessalonians 5:19-21
19 Do not quench the Spirit;
20 do not despise prophetic utterances.
21 But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good;

Gift vs Relationship

When it comes to hearing God from others you are generally operating through a gift.
When it comes to hearing God for yourself you are not usually not operating through a gift.  
  • You hear him through a relationship.   

Old Testament Prophets

Did the old testament prophets operate in the gift of prophecy?

“Spiritual gifts“ are gifts of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit did not indwell people until Jesus brought Him here.

Prophetic Myths Debunked

Have you heard it said that:
1.     Prophecy Will Only Be Confirmation
2.     Prophecy Will Always Be Positive
3.     Prophecy Will Only be About You


@Isaiah 38:1-6
  • God told Isaiah to tell Hezekiah he was going to die so get his house in order
  • Hezekiah cried to God
  • It wasn’t a confirmation
  • It wasn’t positive
  • It wasn’t about Isaiah
These myths were developed to protect against the many false prophets that we have in our churches but they aren’t biblical.



Ask God for Confirmation

Confirmation can be through any of the ways God speaks
  • Bible
  • Other people
  • Coincidences
  • Doors opening / closing
  • Fleece
Story: Skip breakfast

Can you think of an example of when God gave you confirmation?


Does it align with a Previous Word from God?

Proverbs 16:9
  9The mind of man plans his way,
            But the LORD directs his steps 

Example: God told me to teach
  • Join this other growth group

Does it Align With Your Purpose?


Life Purpose vs Season

We have a life purpose and we have seasons. Every season may not seem to guide you towards your purpose.
Story: my history
  • Tutoring job
  • Tutoring company
  • Consulting company
  • Teaching


Things Effortlessly Fall Into Place

Acts 18:1-3
1After these things he left Athens and went to Corinth. 2And he found a Jew named Aquila, a native of Pontus, having recently come from Italy with his wife Priscilla, because Claudius had commanded all the Jews to leave Rome. He came to them, 3and because he was of the same trade, he stayed with them and they were working, for by trade they were tent-makers.
  • Convenient coincidences
Story: computer teacher was college counselor


Heartburn

When Jesus met the Disciples  on the road after the resurrection 

Luke 24:31-32
31Then their eyes were opened and they recognized Him; and He vanished from their sight. 32They said to one another, “Were not our hearts burning within us while He was speaking to us on the road, while He was explaining the Scriptures to us?”

How do you know it’s from God?
  • When your heart burns
When you have a strong sensation caused by God’s presence

When The Word ignites something inside of you
  • A renewed enthusiasm
  • An irrational hope
  • A peace that surpasses understanding
You may feel an intense communion with God, that "inspires" you to become active.

It changed the disciples ... from mourning His death ... to proclaiming that He was alive! 

The disciples went from doubting, fearful, questioning followers to becoming leaders
  • They bravely faced the risk of death
  • They preached boldly to crowds of thousands
A word from God changed me from a pew Christian who wouldn’t volunteer to help with anything

“TEACH”

Change me from not wanting to volunteer for anything because I didn’t have time…

Changed me from focusing solely on my own pleasure...

To spending 20+ hours a week working on this ministry

Someone said that the gift of teaching always comes with a hunger for the Word

A fire burning in your heart is yet another way to discern the voice of God

When it ignites a fire within your chest

When you have a supernatural motivation to do something of God

I pray that God inspires a burning in your heart

I pray that during this locked down that you get a burning desire to serve the Lord


Instructor: Michael Leadon




References

How to Hear God’s Voice

How to Discern if a Word is From the Lord

5 Questions to Know If We're Hearing From God

7 Ways to Distinguish God’s Voice from the Circumstances of Life

Discerning God's Voice

Discerning the voice of God – the mission church

Discerning the Voice of God - Kingdom City Messages

Discerning God‘s voice - First Baptist Church Amherst

Hearing God’s Voice - Robert Morris

How To know God’s voice

Freshwater church

How Do We Listen to God?

Discerning God’s voice - Leighton Ford 

Which Old Testament Promises Apply to Me?

7 Keys to Hearing God


Extra

Aquila and Priscilla

  • Acts 18:2-3: There he became acquainted with a Jew named Aquila, born in Pontus, who had recently arrived from Italy with his wife, Priscilla. They had left Italy when Claudius Caesar deported all Jews from Rome. Paul lived and worked with them, for they were tentmakers just as he was.
  • Acts 18:18: Paul stayed in Corinth for some time after that, then said good-bye to the brothers and sisters and went to nearby Cenchrea. There he shaved his head according to Jewish custom, marking the end of a vow. Then he set sail for Syria, taking Priscilla and Aquila with him.
  • Acts 18:26: When Priscilla and Aquila heard him preaching boldly in the synagogue, they took him aside and explained the way of God even more accurately.
  • Romans 16:3: Give my greetings to Priscilla and Aquila, my co-workers in the ministry of Christ Jesus.
  • 1Cor 16:19: The churches here in the province of Asia send greetings in the Lord, as do Aquila and Priscilla and all the others who gather in their home for church meetings.
  • 2Tim 4:19: Give my greetings to Priscilla and Aquila and those living in the household of Onesiphorus.

Thursday, April 9, 2020

How to Know God is Speaking - Part 4


How do you discern if a word, thought, or plan you have is from God?




Outline:
  • Review
  • Does it Agree With the Bible?
  • Game:  Could That Be God?
  • Get Counsel from Wise Christians
  • God Uses Other People to Confirm His Word
  • Ask God for Confirmation
  • Training Your Ear

Scriptures:
  • Proverbs 3:6
  • 2 Timothy 3:16-17
  • 3 John 1:2
  • 3 John 1:1-3
  • Exodus 20:4
  • Acts 1:23-26
  • Leviticus 16:8
  • @Jonah 1:7
  • Proverbs 16:33
  • @Exodus 20:4
  • Isaiah 20:2
  • Acts 16:6-8
  • Isaiah 38:1
  • Proverbs 11:14
  • Proverbs 12:15
  • Proverbs 19:20
  • 1 Corinthians 14: 3-4
  • Judges 6: 36 - 38
  • Hebrews 5:14

Proverbs 3:6
In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight.
Why do people go to fortune tellers?
  • They want to know their future
  • To hear positive things about the future
  • They want some direction or clarity in an area of their life
Story: Girl sent me a cassette tape of a psychic
  • The issue isn’t whether she was wrong of right

We Want Help Making Big Decisions

We want to discern the voice of God when we need to make a decision. We want to discern the voice of God when we are about to take action on something that could have a major impact on our lives.
  • Should I marry this person?
  • Should I join/ leave this church?
  • Should I quit my job and become a missionary to Haiti?
Is it in alignment with God’s will?

Review

In the series Hearing From God

We previously discussed that God can speak to us through:
  1. Bible
  2. Prayer
  3. Pastors / teachers
  4. Prophetic words
  5. Tongues / Interpretations
  6. Dreams / Visions
  7. Peace
  8. Unusual circumstances / coincidences
  9. Fleece
  10. Closing doors
  11. Bringing things to your memory
  12. Voice
  13. Inspired thoughts
  14. Prompting of the Holy Spirit
  15. Draw your Attention to something
  16. Nature
  17. Worship / music
  18. Emotions
  19. Writing
  20. Angels

Voice We Hear

Voices / thoughts / impressions that we get aren’t necessarily all from God

The voices can originate from
  • God
  • Your Mind
  • The World
  • Your Flesh
  • Your Gut
  • The enemy

Your Mind


Your Own Voice

  • Your own plan
  • Voice of the past
  • Negative self talk
  • “You’re dumb”
  • “You’re not married because you’re too ugly”
  • “God can’t love you because remember you did this  ____ “

Voice of the World

  • Science
  • Media
  • Popular opinion
The systems that promote non-Christian perspectives

Your Flesh

  • Your physical desires
  • Your sinful tendencies

Lust of the Flesh

  • To want something because it feels good
  • The temptation to feel physical pleasure from a sinful activity

Lust of the Eyes

  • Desire to own or possess
  • Coveting
  • Desire for status

Pride of Life

  • Power, Significance, respect
  • Something that leads to boasting

Your Gut

  • Bacteria
  • Viruses
  • Fungus
  • Candida
  • Yeast
They influence your fleshly desires
  • Cravings and addictions
  • Obesity
  • Alcoholism
  • Sexual desires

The Enemy

  1. Strongholds
  2. Temptation
  3. Fear
  4. Isolation
  5. Attacks When You’re Vulnerable
  6. Condemnation
  7. Deception
  8. Distraction
  9. The Enemy Can Influence Your Thoughts
  10. He Uses Other People


Strongholds

  • fortified structure
  • Patterns of beliefs
  • An argument that goes against God or the bible
  • Example: The bible was based on a culture that doesn’t apply today
  • not a sin but the argument you use to justify the sin
  • Allows you to ignore or downplay whichever parts of the Bible you deem as inappropriate


Discerning God’s Voice

What would you tell someone if they said God told them not to witness to someone?

How can we test to discern if something is from God or not?


Does it Agree With the Bible?

  • When God speaks it is confirmed by his word
  • If it contradicts the word it is not from God

2 Timothy 3:16-17
16 All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;
17 so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.

We’re not asking “does it agree with our religious practices of my church”


Know who God was talking to in a verse.

Did God promise that every infertile couple could have a son even if they’re over 80?
  • The promise was specific to Abraham and Sarai


Look at the Context

If you have faith God promise to:
  • Heal
  • Make you rich

3 John 1:2
2Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers.
So is God promising health and wealth to all of us beloved Christians?
  • Who is “Beloved” referring to?
  • Where does it mention faith?

3 John 1:1-3
1The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth.
      2Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. 3For I was very glad when brethren came and testified to your truth, that is, how you are walking in truth.
  • John is speaking to Gaius
  • Gaius is the “Beloved”
  • This is a greeting to the letter
John isn’t even promising Gaius prosperity and health


The Word will be in Alignment With the Whole Bible

Jesus says “the poor will always be with us”
Jesus clearly wasn’t promising that if you follow Him you’d become rich


Is it Universally True?

  • What if you’re in jail for life and you have faith in Jesus
  • Are you going to become rich?
  • Does your interpretation only work in America?


What Was the Point of the Verse?

Was it something they did because it was cultural and therefore no longer applies or was it something based on God‘s character or the nature of mankind?  

Example: flat earth


Exodus 20:4
"You shall not make for yourself an idol, or any likeness of what is in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the water under the earth.

The point of the verse was “don’t make any images/idols”.  God wasn’t teaching them geology or astrology.

God wouldn’t educate them just to make a point
  • Physics
  • Geometry
  • Science
  • Microbiology
  • Anatomy


Game:  Could That Be God?

We want to base our determination on the Bible not necessarily on cultural or church tradition.
You decide...does the bible support the claim?


Casting Lots

What if a Christian told you God told them to flip a coin to decide between two jobs?
  • Do you tell them that wasn’t God
Acts 1:23-26
23 So they put forward two men, Joseph called Barsabbas (who was also called Justus), and Matthias.
24 And they prayed and said, “You, Lord, who know the hearts of all men, show which one of these two You have chosen
25 to occupy this ministry and apostleship from which Judas turned aside to go to his own place.”
26 And they drew lots for them, and the lot fell fnto Matthias; and he was added to the eleven apostles.
  • They prayed to God and ask him to control the outcome
Cleromancy
Cleromancy is a form of sortition, casting of lots, in which an outcome is determined by means that normally would be considered random, such as the rolling of dice, but are sometimes believed to reveal the will of God, or other supernatural entities.

Leviticus 16:8
8 “Aaron shall cast lots for the two goats, one lot for the LORD and the other lot for the scapegoat.
When Jonah was in the boat how did the sailors determine Jonah was causing the storm?
  • The cast lots
@Jonah 1:7
7 Each man said to his mate, “Come, let us cast lots so we may learn on whose account this calamity has struck us.” So they cast lots and the lot fell on Jonah.

Proverbs 16:33
33 The lot is cast into the lap,
But its every decision is from the LORD.

David says that whatever the lot decides is from the Lord

Story: Teddy pick by random verse


Sculpture of an Angel

What if a famous artist said that God came to him in a dream and told him to create a large sculpture of an angel in front of the church for free?
  • It would be worth 100s of thousands of dollars
@Exodus 20:4
"You shall not make for yourself an idol, or any likeness of what is in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the water under the earth.


Walk Around Naked

What if someone said: God told me I’m a prophet and I should walk around naked

Isaiah 20:2
2the LORD had already spoken through Isaiah son of Amoz, saying, “Go, remove the sackcloth from your waist and the sandals from your feet.”

And Isaiah did so, walking around naked and barefoot.


God Told Someone Not to Witness

Someone mentions that their roommate is not a Christian, when asked if they’ve told them about Jesus they reply “God told me not to”.   

Do we tell them that Jesus said: “Make disciples of the whole world”?

Acts 16:6-7
 6They passed through the Phrygian and Galatian region, having been forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in Asia; 7and after they came to Mysia, they were trying to go into Bithynia, and the Spirit of Jesus did not permit them; 


Common Misunderstandings About Prophecy

Have you heard it said that:
  1. Prophecy Will Only Be Confirmation
  2. Prophecy Will Always Be Positive
  3. Prophecy Will Only be About You
Isaiah 38:1
1In those days Hezekiah became mortally ill. The prophet Isaiah son of Amoz came to him and said, “This is what the LORD says: Put your house in order, for you are about to die; you will not recover.” 


Get Counsel from Wise Christians

Proverbs 11:14
14Where there is no guidance the people fall,
            But in an abundance of counselors there is victory.

Proverbs 12:15
The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But a wise man is he who listens to counsel.

Proverbs 19:20
Listen to counsel and accept discipline,
That you may be wise the rest of your days.

Not based on if you want to do it

Example:  I meet with a Pastor before each series


Selective Counseling

Sometimes we ask a lot of people until somebody says what we want to hear
  • Or they only ask people who they know will agree with their opinion


God Uses Other People to Confirm His Word

1 Corinthians 14: 3-4
3 But one who prophesies speaks to men for edification and exhortation and consolation. 4 One who speaks in a tongue edifies himself; but one who prophesies edifies the church.
How many of you have heard something confirmed during a sermon?

Story: take the job at HP
  • General vs specific word of God
Might be:
  • Pastor
  • Bible study teacher or student
  • Prophet


Ask God for Confirmation

Judges 6: 36 - 38
36Then Gideon said to God, “If You are going to save Israel by my hand, as You have said, 37then behold, I will place a fleece of wool on the threshing floor. If there is dew only on the fleece and all the ground is dry, then I will know that You are going to save Israel by my hand, as You have said.”
38And that is what happened. When Gideon arose the next morning, he squeezed the fleece and wrung out the dew—a bowlful of water.

Story: Skip breakfast

I always ask God for confirmation when
  1. Joining or leaving a church
  2. Choosing a mate
  3. Taking a job
Example: leaving a church

I wouldn’t leave a church because the pastor leaves unless I was already considering leaving and I got confirmation. If I was at that church happy go lucky with the pastor I’m not leaving to follow him.



Training Your Ear

Hebrews 5:14
14But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil.
  • “Senses” is physical and natural
Aisthētērion - Senses
faculty of the mind for perceiving, understanding, judging

Listen

The music is not in the notes, but in the silence between.
-- Claude Debussy 

Have you noticed that “listen” and “silent” have the exact same letters ?

Looking and noticing and paying attention matters

How to train
  • Set an time to be with God
  • Quiet time
  • Reading scripture
  • Worship
  • Pray
  • Fasting
  • Listen
The greatest gift in the end time will not be a speaking gift but a listening gift

Instructor:  Michael Leadon




References

How to Hear God’s Voice

How to Discern if a Word is From the Lord

5 Questions to Know If We're Hearing From God

7 Ways to Distinguish God’s Voice from the Circumstances of Life

Discerning God's Voice

Discerning the voice of God – the mission church

Discerning the Voice of God - Kingdom City Messages

Discerning God‘s voice - First Baptist Church Amherst

Hearing God’s Voice - Robert Morris

How To know God’s voice
Freshwater church

How Do We Listen to God?