Disagreement | Division | Distractions
Outline:
- Introduction
- Traits of Wholeness
- Review of Spiritual Warfare
- Disagreement / Division
- Distraction
- Fasting
Scriptures:
- 1 Corinthians 1:10
- Deuteronomy 32:30
- Luke 11:17
- 2 Corinthians 2:10
- 1 Corinthians 7:5
- Ephesians 4:25-27
- Galatians 5:19-21
- 1 Timothy 6:3-5
- Romans 16:17
- Titus 3:9-11
- John 13:34-35
- Collosians 3:2
- Proverbs 28:19
- Ezra 8:21
- Psalms 69:10
Introduction
1 Corinthians 1:10
Now I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all agree and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be made complete in the same mind and in the same judgment.
- Paul urges them not to have division
The Power of Unity
- World Wide Web
- HTML
- Browsers
- One currency
- DoorDash | Priceline
Power of Agreement
"For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them" (Matthew 18:20)
If you want to go fast… Go alone if you want to go far go together
Example: ToastMasters
- momentum
Deuteronomy 32:30
“How could one chase a thousand, And two put ten thousand to flight, Unless their Rock had sold them, And the LORD had given them up?
Satan wants us to be divided
Knowing the Enemy’s Tactics
When you cause division… You are doing the devil's work for him
That’s one of the tactics of the enemy
When you know the tactics of the enemy you can stop and say…
… Where is this coming from?
We were just having a nice discussion and now…
- I’m mad
- They’re mad
Maybe it’s the enemy
Traits of Wholeness
We are in our series called Seeking Wholeness
How can we be:
- Spiritually healthy
- Emotionally healthy
- Mentally healthy
Free from oppression of
- Your past
- Yourself
- Bad thinking
- Strongholds
- The enemy
Sozo
- Saved
- Healed
- Delivered from demons
Dealing with life’s current stresses and also being healed from experiences/wounds of the past
We’re not just supposed to have eternal life
- We’re supposed to have: joy, peace, patience, and self control here on earth
Traits of Wholeness
- Authenticity
- Honesty
- Kindness
- Not seeking external approval / validation
- Living by values and principles
- Setting Boundaries
- Taking ownership of your responsibilities
- Living with purpose and passion
- Optimism
- Confidence
- Healthy relationships with others
- Not losing control of your emotions
- Free from addictions
- Addressing Conflict with truth and love
- Vulnerability
- Not critical or Judgemental
- Not jealous
- Genuinely applaud the success of others
- Forgive those who have wronged you in the past
- Know that you’re worthy of receiving love
- Not afraid to fail
- Able to manage irrational fear, worry, and anxiety
- Selfless encounters with others
- Not manipulating others trying to control their actions/reactions
- You care about how others feel
- Patient
- Don’t give into peer/social pressure
- Can communicate directly
- Don’t take responsibility for other people's emotions
- Take responsibility for your own emotions
- Slow to anger
- Ability to maturely express your wants, needs and desires
- Being led by the Spirit
We want to become
- aware of our issues
- empowered to manage/fix them
Review of Spiritual Warfare
3 mistakes Christians make
- Think spiritual warfare is a supernatural weird thing that we should ignore
- We shouldn’t ever talk about Satan or demons because we give them power
- Leaves you like Job (ignorant of the tactics of the enemy)
- Get fixated on spiritual warfare
- Blamed the devil or demons for all of the problems in our life
- This takes away personal responsibility
Enemies
We have an unseen enemies
- the devil
- Demons
- Fallen angels
- Rulers, powers, principalities
The Enemy’s Goal in Spiritual Warfare
- Keep You Operating From Your Flesh
- Prevent You From Walking in Your Purpose
- Challenge Your Identity
- To Draw us Away from God
- Kill, Steal and Destroy
- Damage Relationships
Don’t be shocked that you have warfare
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Principalities
Paul speaks of Rulers, powers, principalities, dominions, thrones
- In the Old Testament they are referred to as Sons of God (and elohim)
- Daniel refers to them as Princes
- Prince of Persia
- Prince of Greece
They influence the culture of a geographic area
- Influence strongholds/mindsets
Paul says that they are in Heavenly places
- They are not on earth
- We are not told to bind them or cast them out
He tells us to battle them using the Armor of God
Armor of God
Ephesians 6: 10 - 18^
We defeat them with
- Living a life of “truthfulness”
- Moral righteousness
- Believing the gospel of Jesus Christ
- Having faith in God
- Having the hope of salvation
- Reading the bible
- Hearing and obeying the Holy Spirit
- Led by the Spirit
Demons
Demons still exist today and still possess people
Christ has given us authority over demons
- A Christian can’t be possessed by a demon
- Demons can persecute and target Christians
- The apostle did bind and cast out demons
Curses
Generational Curses
Jesus redeemed us from the curses of the law
- We can’t be cursed based on sinning
- This means that God doesn’t punish us for our sins or the sins of our ancestors
- Therefore there aren’t any generational curses for our sins
Unbelievers can be under a generational curse from involvement with the occult
Deliverance is More than Casting Out Demons
Most Deliverance Isn’t Immediate
https://youtube.com/clip/Ugkxii8isjPqSCCRDx5Cu8Rp0KLUCwGJOezv
Guy in class got delivered from alcoholism
- Was alone on Thanksgiving
- Relapsed
Deliverance is more than casting out demons
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnRq789JmpX/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Inner healing
Sozo
The Enemy’s Attacks
The battlefield is our minds
The enemy attacks our thoughts with:
- Temptation
- Accusation
- Deception
- Discord / Disagreements / Divisiveness
- Distractions
- Disappointment
- Discouragement
Temptation
The devil didn’t make you do anything… He just gave you the opportunity
The deception behind temptation is that it will fulfill you
Accusation
Once you fall for the temptation… The enemy will start to accuse you
- When you are living righteous… He tells you how wonderful sin is
- When you fall… He tells you how horrible you are
Condemnation from the enemy makes you feel
- Shame
- Regret
Conviction of the Holy Spirit encourages you to be righteous
Deception
The bigger goal isn’t just to make you sin, but to make justify why the sin is ok
Disagreement / Division
Tactic: Divide us
Luke 11:17
But He knew their thoughts and said to them, “Every kingdom divided against itself is laid waste; and a house divided against itself falls.
- A Kingdom will fall from internal division
- Jesus said every kingdom with internal division will eventually fall
- A house divided will fall
- A family divided will fall
Divisiveness Gives Satan an Advantage
What is something the Bible says you can do to help Satan attack you?
Paul makes it clear that if we are in disagreement…we give Satan an advantage
Strife in your relationships with others can help Satan
- Not just your sins
It’s not just your faith and Christ’s finished work
Unforgiveness
2 Corinthians 2:10-11
10 But one whom you forgive anything, I also forgive; for indeed what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, I did so for your sakes in the presence of Christ, 11 so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.- Repented believer
- Satan scheme is to make you not to forgive someone
It is Satan’s scheme for us to be in unforgiveness
Paul encourages the church at Corinth to forgive and reassure any repentant believer who may have caused the rest of the church grief. The apostle urges the church to make such a person feel welcome and loved. Why? Because Paul particularly does not want Satan to outwit them.
Deprivation of Sex (in Marriage)
1 Corinthians 7:5
5 Stop depriving one another [of sex], except by agreement for a time so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Paul tells married couples not to deprive one another sexually, otherwise Satan will capitalize on the deprived spouse’s lack of self-control
Anger
Ephesians 4:25-27
25 Therefore, ridding yourselves of falsehood, SPEAK TRUTH EACH ONE OF YOU WITH HIS NEIGHBOR, because we are parts of one another. 26 BE ANGRY, AND YET DO NOT SIN; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and do not give the devil an opportunity.
- your neighbor (not just romantic relationships)
- Staying angry gives the devil an opportunity
Anger becomes unforgiveness
- Over time
Not reconciling give Satan advantage
Solutions
- Speak the truth in love
- Be slow to anger
- Act on it and move on
Divisiveness
Galatians 5:19-21
19 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: sexual immorality, impurity, indecent behavior, 20 idolatry, witchcraft, hostilities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, 21 envy, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
- Strife
- Dissension
What types of things do people divide over?
Differences in
- Doctrine
- Ethnicity
- Education
- Social economic background
- Age
- Worship styles
- Politics
- Stages in life
- Vaccine / masks
Some Christians think they should avoid things/people that are different
Politics
The Jews in Jesus day missed the Messiah because they were too hung up on politics
- They were expecting a messiah who was going to overtake the government
Gossip
Proverbs 6:16-19^
16 There are six things that the LORD hates, Seven that are an abomination to Him: 17 Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, And hands that shed innocent blood, 18 A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that run rapidly to evil, 19 A false witness who declares lies, And one who spreads strife among brothers.
- God hates a person who spread strife
Example: ALCF splits
Doctrine
1 Timothy 6:3-5
3If anyone advocates a different doctrine and does not agree with sound words, those of our Lord Jesus Christ, and with the doctrine conforming to godliness, 4 he is conceited and understands nothing; but he has a sick craving for controversial questions and disputes about words, from which come envy, strife, abusive language, evil suspicions, 5 and constant friction between people of depraved mind and deprived of the truth, who suppose that godliness is a means of gain.
- Craving controversial questions
- Disputes about words (e.g. “luck”)
Story: when I joined bible study
- Show how much I know
- It’s not my class
- Not my job to correct the teachings
The enemy will have you focus on things you disagree with instead of the things you agree with
Has a preacher ever said something you disagree with and you just didn’t hear the whole rest of the sermon?
Romans 16:17
Now I urge you, brothers and sisters, keep your eye on those who cause dissensions and hindrances contrary to the teaching which you learned, and turn away from them.
You have to have learned the teaching
Arguing With Christians
Titus 3:9-11
9 But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, arguments, and quarrels about the law, because these things are pointless and worthless.
10 Reject a divisive man after a first and second admonition, 11 knowing that such a man is corrupt and sinful; he is self-condemned.
- Have nothing more to do with them
Not just disagreement
- Causing conflict
Example: Sizzler arguments
- Christian approached us
- When some people “lose” they want to attack
When we are divisive as Christians… We destroy our credibility
John 13:34-35
34 “I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another; just as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 35 “By this all people will know that you are My disciples: if you have love for one another.”
Social media
Example: TikTok haters
Solutions
- Show grace to Christians with different views on nonessentials
- Value the relationship over being right
Distraction
- Tactic: distract us from the things of God
Collosians 3:2
2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.
What are some things that distract people from focusing on godly things?
The enemy will distract you with
- Gossip / Slander
- Trivial things
- Urgent things
- Battling with a brother or sister in the church
- Social media
- Fighting battles that don’t matter
- Thinking about things you shouldn’t be thinking about
- Involved in things that consume too much time
- Mr/Ms Right Now
Example: My Quora distraction
- What is singular for Nephilim
- Is Bigfoot a Nephilim?
- Who would win a fight between Jesus and Moses
- “Do you want a potato?”
- Bon appetito
Why the Enemy Wants to Distract You
The enemy will distract you from
- Christian walk
- Relationship with God
- Your purpose
Why We’re Losing Christians
Why is America less Christian now?
“We are not losing Christians to Islam and the occult. We are losing them to
- Football
- Brunch
- Sleeping in”
The Good Taking Place of The Great
Mary and Martha
Luke 10:38-42^
38 Now as they were traveling along, He entered a village; and a woman named Martha welcomed Him into her home. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, who was also seated at the Lord’s feet, and was listening to His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do the serving by myself? Then tell her to help me.” 41 But the Lord answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; 42 but only one thing is necessary; for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.”
Good things can take your focus off of what is most important
- Job
- Kids
- Too many ministries
Example: too many ministries
- St. Paul
Apostles Won't Serve Tables
Acts 6:1-4^
1Now [a]at this time, as the disciples were increasing in number, a complaint developed on the part of the [b]Hellenistic Jews against the native Hebrews, because their widows were being overlooked in the daily serving of food. 2So the twelve summoned the [c]congregation of the disciples and said, “It is not desirable for us to neglect the word of God in order to serve tables. 3 Instead, brothers and sisters, select from among you seven men of good reputation, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we may put in charge of this task. 4 But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the [d]ministry of the word.”
- “It is not desirable for us to neglect the word of God in order to serve tables
Story: Growth groups = little churches
- I Didn’t want to pastor
Story: backup teachers
- Not called to start a Bible study
- Called to “teach”
“Don’t confuse momentum with instruction”
Types of Obstacles
- Distraction - you can choose
- Interruption -
- Involuntarily breaks focus
- you can choose whether or not to deal with it
- Disruption -
- you can’t help it; beyond your control
What are some examples of distractions?
Distraction
- Most news
- Gossip
- Social media
- Sports
- Sale at store
Example: Current News
- School shooting
- Police killed a black man
- Earthquake in Turkey and Syria
- Revival going on in Asbury
- Power outages
- Trump rigged election
- Crypto market | stock market
- The Grammy awards - Sam Smith
- Rihanna superbowl performance
- Elon Musk | Kanye West
Example: layoff
- “Are you okay?”
- Didn’t know we had one
What are some examples of interruptions?
- Involuntarily breaks focus
- you can choose whether or not to deal with it
Interruption
- Text message alerts
- Smoke detector battery
What are some examples of disruptions?
- you can’t help it; beyond your control
Disruption
- Busted pipe
- Layoff
- Loss of loved one
- Health issue
- Car accident
Solution
- Don’t treat your distractions like disruptions
Cell Phones
It’s hard to keep our minds on godly things when …
Who used to own or still owns:
- Home phone
- Mailbox
- Bookcase
- Encyclopedia
- Calculators
- Credit cards
- Calendars
- Little black book
- Photo albums
- Camera
- Video camera
- Maps
- Newspaper
- GPS
Now we have all of that in our pockets
More people in the world own a mobile device than on a toothbrush
Smartphones Make You Dumb
https://youtube.com/shorts/aydLdneCupk?feature=share
Science experiment: cell phone and mental capacity
- Visible
- Phone turned upside down
59% of the world's population uses social media.
The average daily usage is 2 hours and 31 minutes (January 2023).
–smartinsights.com
“The great use of Twitter and Facebook will be on judgment day to prove that prayerlessness wasn’t due to lack of time”
— John piper
“It is possible to have the illusion of companionship without the burden of relationship”
—Jentezen Franklin
Solutions
Cell phone
- Turn off app alerts
- Do not disturb
Detours
We sometimes try to start things too early and they don’t succeed
We give premature life to things that weren’t supposed to be here yet
Lofty Dreams
Proverbs 28:19
19The one who works his land will have plenty of food,
but whoever chases fantasies will have his fill of poverty.
Story: Joe’s ideas
- always has new idea how we can get rich or famous
Warren Buffet advice
Solutions for Distraction
What are things you do to keep from getting distracted?
Have a “Spiritual Why”
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CozY6WSsypi/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Which Kingdom Do You Belong To?
- The battle is over our attention
Which kingdom are you loyal to?
- spending your time on
- Spending your money on
- Thinking about
- Have your goals set towards
- Have your value based in
- Success / failure
What makes you say
- “ today was a good day in “
- “today was a productive day“
Exercise: List out Your Goals
- Which ones are goals God gives in the Bible?
- Which ones aid the Kingdom?
Obedience is better than sacrifice
Fasting
Fasting is a weapon of spiritual warfare
Lent
Why do we fast?
- What is the purpose of fasting?
Why did Jesus fast?
People say you need to fast based on “Whatever it is you’re focusing on more than God“
- Jesus fasted
- Was it because he was focusing on food more than God?
Ezra 8:21
Then I proclaimed a fast there, at the river Ahava, that we might humble ourselves before our God, to seek from him a safe journey for ourselves, our children, and all our goods.
The main purpose of fasting is … to humble yourself
Psalms 69:10
10 When I wept and humbled my soul with fasting,
it became my reproach.
Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.
– C. S. Lewis
Fasting
- Not a diet
Putting God’s desires ahead of your own
Fear of God
Take your trust off of yourself and put it into the Lord
Don’t trust your
- Connections
- Beauty
- Spirituality
- Money
It is true that my blessings come through men… But my eyes are fixed on you
Instructor: Michael Leadon
References
5 ways demons attack believers
David Diga Hernandez
Demonic attacks (1/2)
David Diga Hernandez
Demonic attacks (2/2)
David Diga Hernandez
Are you under demonic attack? – Seven demonic strategies exposed
David Diga Hernandez
The power of distraction
Jentezen Franklin
How to know if Satan is attacking you: three signs of spiritual warfare
Apply godsword.com
Five targets demons attack in spiritual warfare
Grace digital Netwerk
Facing a Satanic attack – Dr. Charles Stanley
In Touch Ministries
Division is demonic | Preston Morrison
Pillar church
(99+) Are there Really More Mobile Phone Owners than Toothbrush Owners? | LinkedIn
Extra
Change The Pattern
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Cell Phones
A landmark report released today by Common Sense Media finds that teenagers (ages 13-18) use an average of nine hours of entertainment media per day and that tweens (ages 8-12) use an average of six hours a day, not including time spent using media for school or homework.
- TV
- Music
- Social media
- This will be 24 years of their lives
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